Source: Sola Ogundipe
Survey shows most women prefer men with more “down there”—but African voices want more than measurements.
A provocative new survey from the UK has reignited one of the oldest debates in the bedroom: does penis size matter? According to a new study by the Moorgate Andrology Clinic, a resounding 9 out of 10 women said yes—revealing a preference for an ideal length of 7.5 inches, far above the global average of 5.5 inches.
The survey, which polled women aged 18 to their mid-60s, found that nearly 50% also desired increased girth, adding fuel to the rise of male enhancement procedures. But while the survey made headlines in Europe, it has stirred deeper questions in Africa—where open discussions around sex remain taboo.
A Growing Conversation, Still Understudied in Africa
Unlike in the West, there is a scarcity of research into African women’s sexual preferences, satisfaction, and experiences. Cultural and religious sensitivities often suppress open dialogue, especially around female desire.
Yet voices are emerging. “It’s not just about size—it’s about the silence,” says one Nigerian health advocate. “If men can talk about breasts and hips, women should be allowed to talk about what they like, too.”
The Science of Preference
In the Moorgate study, 180 women evaluated 27 realistic models ranging from 2 to 10 inches. Over 90% said their ideal was larger than their current experience, affirming long-circulated cultural beliefs—but now with statistical backing.
Another landmark 2015 study published in PLOS ONE used 3D models to examine preferences. While it did not include African women, it showed most women preferred slightly above-average sizes (6.3–6.4 inches in length, 4.8–5.0 inches in girth), especially for short-term partners. Girth, rather than length, was often a more critical factor for pleasure.
Male Insecurities and Rising Demand
Surgeons at Moorgate report a surge in male enhancement procedures, echoing global trends. Between 2019 and 2022, the U.S. alone saw a 250% rise in such surgeries. Techniques now range from fat transfers and dermal fillers to more invasive suspensory ligament procedures.
“For many men, size impacts self-esteem, relationships, and confidence,” a urologist at Moorgate explained. “It’s not just about sex—it’s about self-worth.”
However, experts caution against extremes. Medical professionals warn that excessive enhancement can lead to pain, complications, or even dissatisfaction for both partners—especially if female anatomy isn’t considered.
Shifting Sexual Norms in Africa
Across Nigeria and sub-Saharan Africa, media exposure and urbanisation are slowly challenging long-held taboos. Conversations around sexual health, pleasure, and body image are becoming more public, especially among women who want more open and judgment-free dialogue.
“Sex is health. It’s time we stopped treating women’s desires as taboo,” one Lagos-based sexual wellness coach said. “If we can’t talk about what we want, how can we ever achieve satisfaction?”
Still, African women emphasize that education, respect, and openness matter more than measurements.
The Bottom Line
While the idea that “bigger is better” continues to dominate pop culture, research shows that preferences vary widely. What African women truly want may not be just more inches—it’s more freedom to speak, ask, explore, and choose.
“The problem isn’t size—it’s stigma,” said a Kenyan gender advocate. “We need sexual autonomy, not just sexual anatomy.”
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